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A recent survey revealed that 52% of men date for intimacy. Men are looking for that “someone” to get romantically involved with and a potential mate for life. There are women that a man should avoid dating. Here are signs to watch out for:
The Overly Feminist
This type of woman assumes and believes man is the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the correct way.”
Men would not want to spend time with these types of women, as anything that a man will do will always be negative to them. They can never be pleased by a man. This constant negativity can create a hostile environment where a man feels perpetually undermined and undervalued. The overly feminist woman’s belief system often leaves little room for compromise or mutual respect, which are essential components of any healthy relationship.
The Material Girl
She is just after the money! These types of women are “high maintenance.” They not just expect, but often demand that a man should finance all her luxuries in life. To her, the man has the responsibility to pay for dinners, drinks, trips, jewelry, flowers, etc. while she feels no compulsion or guilt to reciprocate.
Simply put, she is a prostitute in disguise. She is a greedy person, having no perception of the feelings of others and her only concern is achieving and obtaining things that she wants. Never be fooled; some appear to be really nice at first until they know that you would do anything for them. Then the asking for material things starts! This type of relationship is deeply unsatisfying for the man, as he becomes more of a wallet than a partner, leading to feelings of being used and unappreciated.
The Hopeless Romantic
These women live inside a perfect world of romance in novels, where love and relationships are perfect, and her knight in shining armor will always come and they will live happily ever after. She has always been pampered by her family and considered a “princess,” thus has no idea what real life is. She will expect the man to take care of her constantly and fulfill all her wishes; if not, she can turn out to be a screaming nag.
Her unrealistic expectations can strain any relationship. The constant pressure to live up to an idealized version of love can be overwhelming. When reality fails to match her fantasies, she may become disillusioned and blame her partner for not meeting her impossible standards. This can lead to frequent conflicts and a lack of genuine connection.
The Angry Girl
Similar to the feminist, she actually hates men. They often look down on men, accounting for a long list of all the injustice and transgressions of every guy that they shared a relationship with. To her, all men are “creeps,” “pigs,” and jerks. These women have boiling rage at men that can, at any given moment, explode.
This deep-seated anger makes it nearly impossible to build a healthy relationship. The angry girl is always ready to fight and often projects her past negative experiences onto her current partner. This leads to a toxic environment where constructive communication is replaced by constant accusations and bitterness. Such relationships are emotionally draining and leave little room for growth or happiness.
The Insecure Miss
They will seem to be very pleasant, loving, and accommodating at first, treating men very well. Later, when all her innermost insecurities surface, she can be annoyingly calling the man she is dating at least ten times a day, asking where he is, or that she just missed his voice.
This woman demands frequent and persistent reassurance that you love her and find her attractive; because of this insecurity, she worries continuously about her hair, makeup, clothes, etc. She can be clingy, needing constant attention, and insistently torments you with her thoughts that you will leave her soon if you find someone better. Her constant need for validation can be exhausting, leaving little space for your own needs and desires within the relationship. This imbalance can create a suffocating atmosphere where you feel constantly drained.
The Abstract or Elusive Type
She is romantic but with a mysteriously dark side. She has been hurt in past relationships and has not gone over it. These bad experiences drive her to subconsciously stay away from or damage her new relationship.
She will be very frustrating to deal with, as at first, she will show a lot of interest in the man but runs away very quickly; she will repeat this cycle again and again. She will date and flirt with the man but will insist that they both remain as friends. This type of behavior can be incredibly confusing and emotionally taxing. Just when you think you’re making progress, she pulls away, leaving you wondering what went wrong. This constant push-and-pull dynamic prevents the relationship from developing into something meaningful and stable.
The Desperate Miss
She is desperate to get married. She does not even choose to know the man; she just wants to trap him and bring him to the nearest altar!
Her desperation can be overwhelming and lead to a relationship built on shaky foundations. Instead of focusing on genuine compatibility and shared values, the desperate miss is fixated on achieving her goal of marriage at any cost. This urgency often results in hasty decisions and a lack of true emotional connection. Men dating this type of woman may feel rushed and pressured, leading to an unfulfilling and potentially short-lived marriage.
The Controlling Type
She can be very nasty in a very subtle way, but when given the opportunity, will direct each phase of a man’s life. She will always have a “say” as to what the man wears, where he must go, who he should talk to, who can he have as friends, what a man can and cannot eat; as in everything! The man cannot insist on his own rights, or else there will be no sex, a lot of crying, screaming, pouting, and everything just so the man will give in.
This type of woman creates a relationship dynamic where the man feels constantly monitored and restricted. Her need for control can stifle personal growth and autonomy, leading to feelings of resentment and frustration. Over time, the constant manipulation and lack of freedom can erode the man’s self-esteem and sense of identity, making the relationship deeply unhealthy and unsustainable.
