Relationships are based on trust, love, and understanding. But, in many cases, after a long time, these elements disappear, and the couple argues more and more. They can’t understand each other anymore and feel that everything the other person does is wrong. This usually happens because the partners have tired of each other, there is nothing interesting in the relationship anymore, or one of them decided that they want to be with somebody else.
When You Feel It’s Time to Move On
You’ve been in a relationship for a long time and feel that it’s enough; you want something different, or just to be alone with your friends like before, but you don’t know how to end it easily. Or maybe you’ve been dating a girl for some time and you feel bored, knowing she’s not the one for you, and you want to break up with her. If you don’t want to tell her face-to-face that it’s over because you know she will cry and beg you to stay with her, try the following things to make her consider breaking up with you.
Show No Interest Anymore
Pretend that you are very busy, you have a lot of work to do, and you don’t have time to see her today, maybe tomorrow, but not for sure. Show her that you have more interesting things to do than meeting her.
Reduce Communication
Don’t call her as often as you did before. You’ll see that she will call you every day to see what you’re doing and why you’re upset with her, but after a while, she will see that you don’t care about her anymore.
Tell Lies
If you tell her lies and she catches you, she’ll definitely get upset because no woman likes to be lied to, especially if you say that you are at work and she sees you with your friends.
Upset Her During Dates
Even if she is very happy to see you because she hasn’t seen you for a long time, make sure that you do only things that you know she doesn’t like while you are with her. For example, look at other women when you are with her.
Be Late for Dates
No one likes to wait for somebody, especially girls waiting for boys. If you are late once, maybe she will understand because it can happen to anyone, but if you make this a habit, she will feel hurt because you don’t have a bit of respect for her.
Break Up Through a Message
If you want to break up with her without telling her face-to-face and don’t want to upset and hurt her by doing all these things, you can try to send her a message on the telephone telling her that you don’t think it’s worth staying together anymore, or that you need a break, that you miss your old friends you used to go out with before meeting her. You need space to go out with your guys.
She will get a little upset but eventually, she will understand that you don’t want to continue anymore and she won’t have the opportunity to beg and implore you to stay with her.
Maintaining a Healthy Relationship
In a relationship, this can happen anytime if you don’t know how to take care of it, to continually do interesting things with your partner to avoid routine, because you’ll feel bored with each other and there aren’t many chances to make it work again. But, if it really happens that you need to break up with your partner, you have the opportunity to choose the way you are going to do it.
