Today’s question is from one of our readers who wishes to stay anonymous; we’ll call him Bill. Read the question again. Notice how Bill is already convinced that the younger woman he seeks will not be interested in someone his age. This is a self-fulfilling belief that is virtually guaranteed to come true. If you believe deep down that you’re going to fail, then you will.
The real answer.
In short, yes, you can absolutely find a younger woman that’s right for you. You just need to set your target, take action, and stay the course.
How can you get started in the right direction?
First, take a look deep down inside and figure out exactly why you want to meet a younger woman. Reflect on your motivations and desires. Understand what draws you to a younger woman and what you hope to find in such a relationship.
Then, think about what this perfect woman would be like. Describe her in as much detail as you possibly can. Consider her age, physical appearance, personality traits, hobbies, likes and dislikes, and even how she interacts with the world. The more detailed your description, the clearer your vision becomes.
Once you have described the perfect woman for you in great detail, fold up that piece of paper and carry it with you for 1 week. This act of carrying your vision with you helps keep your goals at the forefront of your mind. It serves as a reminder of what you are aiming for and can reinforce your determination.
Dating A Younger Woman
Imagine that you are already with her. What will you do? What will you talk about? Where will you go? REALLY feel it and get into the emotion of it — How will you feel when you are with her?
All of this may sound silly, but do you know that by simply writing down what you want, you increase your chances of getting it by 80%! This simple exercise is powerful because it aligns your thoughts and actions with your goals.
Just think about that one for a minute…
Social stigmas and why do you care?
You don’t. Our society is full of social stigmas. We’re so busy being concerned about “what others will think” that we’re afraid to pursue our own dreams. Yes, many people love to pass judgment on others, but that’s their choice and their right.
Why they do it is a larger topic for another day, but it’s really not important here. No one else can possibly know what’s right for you, so why listen to them? A wise person once said, “What someone else thinks about you is none of your business.”
Is it true that most women want someone around their own age?
This is completely untrue! Fact is, each of us has different and unique wants and needs. Your goal and single focus should be finding the perfect woman for you. Period.
Dating A Younger Woman: 5 Easy Tips for Attracting and Dating Younger Women
Younger women are often attracted to traits like maturity, more money, higher social status, masculinity, leadership abilities, confidence, and composure. So it’s important for you to focus on whichever of these traits you possess.
1. Be yourself.
When older guys meet a younger woman, they often get nervous and start to act really weird. Don’t do this — just be yourself. Authenticity is more attractive than putting on an act. Let your true personality shine through.
2. Keep it light and fun.
Have some fun and be playful. Tease her a little. She remembers how to have fun and be silly. It will help you too if you don’t take life too seriously. Do something a bit wild, things younger guys usually can’t afford to do. Go ahead and enjoy yourself. Life is too short to be serious all the time!
3. Be the leader. Be the man.
Younger women are most likely looking for someone to take the lead. They have less experience in life and are most likely looking for someone to show them what’s out there. Make your date and other plans ahead of time, but be sensitive and ask her opinion of the plans that you have already made. (She may be allergic to sushi). Be a man, yet respect her opinion. Opening doors, walking on the outside of the curb, and pulling out chairs is another way to make a big impression on younger women.
4. Don’t act like a “perv”.
Most young women have been approached by creepy older guys. Don’t make a move too soon, or she’ll think you’re just a perv trying to sleep with her. When you’re alone together, it’s okay to flirt, but let her take the lead if she wants to go further. Otherwise, you might scare her away.
5. Give her some space.
Younger women have likely just moved out of their parents’ homes, where their lives were very structured and they had little freedom. If she is attracted to you, it isn’t because you’re making her feel trapped like before. It’s because you offer something different. Give her some space. Be the man that she’s always dreamed about, and then don’t chase her. Let her come to you.
Stay tuned, more soon…
