Are Women Actually Interested in You When They First See You?
Or is it that they are interested in what they are seeing as a reflection of their own ideals and expectations?
And what about when women reject you or don’t even give you a chance? Has this hurt you before even though other guys will tell you not to take it personally or to just ‘keep on approaching and you’ll get over it’?
Well, I’m going to help you deal with this ‘rejection’ and set it more straight right now (for free).
Know about Initial Impressions
What’s really going on involves many different things and operates on different levels. I want you to be able to differentiate a woman’s response to you so that you can understand it better. This way, it doesn’t hurt you or affect you negatively. Instead, you can learn what hasn’t been working and take advantage of what does work.
When a woman sees you for the first time, she is extrapolating every little detail about you. She is determining whether you might be a fit for her based on these observations. These usually accurate judgments help her decide whether to protect herself from you or open up a chance for you.
In the future, I’ll delve deeply into how to present yourself as everything a woman could want—even if you don’t have the best looks, money, or age, etc.
But for now, understand that the data she is judging off of you is either working for you or against you. You may have had women blow you off or flat-out reject you after you approached and started talking or they never even gave you a chance before you approached.
How to Deal with Rejection from a Woman
Is this something you should take personally? I don’t want to give you a shallow answer. I want to provide the MEANING behind it—the schematics and reasoning. Bear with me, and it will be worth it.
Does a Woman Even Know You When She First Sees You?
When a woman sees you for the first time, she does not know you. So how can you accept any kind of rejection? Just because you approached her and she rejected you does not mean that you have a low character or are undesirable.
Here’s the bad news: some of you may actually have a low character, and the women are judging accurately (albeit without knowing more because they feel they don’t need or want to find out more). But this can all be changed.
Changing Your Approach
You can learn to portray more of what a woman is attracted to and actually BECOME that man in congruity. The primary key is to get in touch with your own natural/universal character and stop relying so much on your limited independent or social character.
Most guys today focus on their social and even independent (nice guy) parts of their character when attracting women. They follow societal norms, and when women don’t respond, they get flustered. This sets a man up for rejection because these areas are less important and are what women respond to the least when it comes to attraction.
It’s hard to see through the social influence when women have become the rulers of the social ‘matrix.’ Natural order is flipped around, so you have to see through all of the social influence and deal with her biology.
The Real Solution
If you focus on your social ‘pick-up game,’ you’ll need to become very skilled at it. Because of your high character, the charts work in reverse so that eventually, she may feel a spark of attraction. This means you have to talk her into it and let her realize you are a man of high character.
This approach takes longer because you started at the wrong end of the character continuum in your communication and portrayal of yourself to her. It also sets you up for failure because you must get all of the words just right, and her temperance is wavering.
Understand Your Character
Hopefully, this helps you understand why men are rejected more and perhaps why you have been sometimes. Understanding it is key to putting it in its place and then changing to do more effective things.
When you are a man of high natural/universal character and communicate this with your body language, often enough alone, the universal/natural part of the woman knows to respond to you. You won’t have to use words.
Developing High Character
A woman is prepared to respond and be attracted to a man with a strong connection to his universal/natural character (which used to be almost all men but people were more localized then). Today, very few men are in full touch with this. Those who are are the ones scoring the most with women.
When you connect with the natural/universal power that is greater than you (and is your inheritance), you can create attraction naturally and make it part of your own character. This addition to your game will make ALL the difference.
Turning the Tables
You won’t even have to deal with rejection anymore because you’ll be able to read and communicate with women on a nonverbal level (the unspoken), which was formerly invisible.
When a woman sees you and you aren’t effectively communicating that you are a man of high character (either incongruently or because you just aren’t there yet), she most likely won’t give you a chance. The key is to understand where you are on the character continuum.
If You Are a Great Guy
If you are a great (nice) guy, remember that she is just judging her initial impression of you. You may have a high independent character and be a great guy, but just separate that from the fact that you were currently LOW on the natural/universal part of your character. That’s the part she was disapproving of, not YOU.
Don’t Take It Personally
Don’t take it personally. When you develop a high character across the charts, you will never have to deal with rejection again. When you play it by certain rules (your rules), SHE will be the one who is rejected or disqualified herself to you, and you will have the power by far.
All You Need is Connection
You will always have the last word. All you really need, even if you have a low independent and social character/status, is a strong connection to your natural ability (especially if you aren’t good looking, poor, or are much older).
Focus on Your Natural Character
If you’ve been focusing on the social character and using techniques and pick-up lines to develop your character to be able to pick up a woman, consider working on your natural/universal character instead. It’s what matters most.
A woman will HELP you pick her up by giving the right signals when you have a high character. You won’t even need pick-up lines then.
In fact, it’s only recently that we had pick-up lines or a need to study this. Differentiate the forced reality from the natural, timeless reality of attraction and female response and separate out all that doesn’t matter (such as her fickle independent/social character when it comes to attraction).
Preventing Rejection
Prevent rejection and isolate the possibility of it by understanding the model magnet system and charts. She isn’t rejecting you; she’s just placing a perception onto you and judging you initially to see if you meet her expectation response/ideal.
Final Thought
I like to say:
She can’t sleep with a man of low (m.m.) character just as much as you can’t sleep with an ugly, fat chick.
And if you’ve taken one for the home team, that’s about as often as she slept with a man of low character (despite his looks).
So make sure that you not only communicate the right things but BE the man of the highest character that you can. It’s more important than your social character/status or your own inner game and personality. It’s about your connection to the universal power of masculinity and secure inner strength.
The feminine energy in her will rule over her fickle independent behavior, and her body just may not be able to resist.
Turning the Tables on Rejection
At this point, women will be approaching you like crazy and throwing out all kinds of signs. This kind of man, who is in touch with his natural/universal character, is so rare these days. The work is already cut out for you.
What would it be worth to turn the tables, never get rejected, and live that kind of lifestyle with women no matter your looks, age, income, or social status? It’s not a trick. It’s real. It’s every man’s inheritance, but he has to embrace and accept it.
The Power of Natural Character
I am the messenger because this power is greater than the greatest of any man in history’s own independent character. You don’t have to be a superstar pick-up artist. You just need to be a man of (natural) character, and you’ll be able to catch women’s interest just by walking into the room.
When you’re already spurring attraction in her and she can trust you by your body language, there’s less of a chance you’ll get rejected. And if you’re living in a dominant reality where she is attracted to you and wants to be, plus taking the natural approach, you can prevent rejection entirely.
Embracing Natural Attraction
This is where the real change happens. You’ll find that women respond to you naturally when you align with your universal power. This approach will make you stand out in a world where many men are still trying to fit into social norms and pick-up tactics.
By focusing on your natural character, you’ll connect with women on a deeper level. You’ll attract them effortlessly because you’re embodying what they are biologically programmed to respond to. This connection goes beyond superficial attributes like looks or status.
The End of Rejection
As you become more in touch with your natural character, you’ll notice a shift in how women perceive you. Rejection will become a thing of the past because you’re no longer relying on external factors or forced techniques. Instead, you’re presenting your true self—one that resonates with universal qualities.
Conclusion
Ultimately, the goal is to develop a strong connection to your natural/universal character. This is where the true power of attraction lies. When you embrace this approach, you won’t need to worry about rejection. Instead, you’ll find that women are drawn to you, and you’ll be able to navigate relationships with a new sense of confidence and ease.
Remember: It’s not about tricks or techniques but about becoming the best version of yourself—one that aligns with your natural strength and authenticity. This is the key to overcoming rejection and finding genuine connections with women.
So take this knowledge and apply it. Embrace your natural character, and watch as your interactions with women transform. You’ll see the difference it makes when you’re truly in touch with who you are and project that confidence and authenticity.
By doing so, you’ll not only attract the right people into your life but also build meaningful and lasting relationships based on genuine connection and mutual respect.
